Ponderings of a Middle-Aged Mom: Save the Drama

Y'know. . .

I am not one for drama.

Well. . . I am not one for drama in my life.

I enjoy watching drama as it unfolds as long as it doesn't involve me.

I might be a tad hypocritical. I know this.

Anyway.

My point is this:

My business is my business. And if I happen to share my business with you? Consider yourself lucky. And because I am sharing my business with you? That does not give you the right to share my business with other people.

Although, your son shared my business with you, not me. And yes, he got yelled at.

I do not need you talking on the phone and telling the one person who you know I do not like {You know, the one who started a fight between us about something stupid from 2000 miles away? Yeah her.} about my current health woes and whatever else.

Fuck that.

Fuck her.

I really didn't want YOU to know that I am diabetic. You blow things out of proportion. You act like a know it all. And it makes you look ignorant.

So what if I have to take insulin?

Insulin is not a bad thing. It isn't a death sentence.

At least I am trying to take care of my diabetes.

At least I am trying to take care of myself. {Although, it is turning out to be harder than I thought it would be.}

Please keep my business to yourself. Do not share it with other people. Or you could find yourself residing in the land of Clueless.

Capiche?

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Shell · 696 weeks ago

Sorry you have to deal with that on top of everything else!

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Stasha 77p · 696 weeks ago

I am so irritated.

And I can't say anything. At all.

So I try to vent here without letting too much info out.

Sigh.

oka · 696 weeks ago

Please forgive me, I shared with the person closest to me. Only so we could pray for you though.

I agree, it was not their information to hand out, with out asking.

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That's different, Oka. So totally different.

The story above was not shared for prayers. It was shared just to share. Because someone is nosey.

Sigh.

Thankfully, I have been able to remove the nosey "family" from radar.

This wench bag 'friended' me on Facebook. I thought it was so she could get to know me. In reality it was to be a spy. She reported EVERYTHING I posted as a status.

After one particular status "Someone in this house is cutting their nose off to spite their face." she called and "told on me". Which then started a HUGE argument. Between the in-laws and me AND Randall and me.

She said that I talked shit about the IL's ALL the time. I was pissed because she told MIL lies and MIL never asked me about any of it. Just assumed it was all true.

So after the big blow up? She was blocked on FB. Unfortunately, MIL still talks to her on the phone, frequently. And the last time she was on the phone? I overheard MY business being talked about.

But I am in a position where I can't say a damn thing. And it sucks.