Ponderings of a Middle-Aged Mom: Taking a Stand

My world is shifting.

Things have been said and done that can not be taken back.

Apologies were exchanged but I don't believe you meant the words that crossed your lips.

You were too violent the night before.

So many things said out of anger and hatred.

I am not now, nor will I ever be scared of you.

I know you could care less about my opinion. That is apparent with every argument that has been had. It is acceptable for everyone else to speak their mind until it comes to me. As soon as I open my mouth, if it is not in agreement with you, the shit hits the fan.

I am here to tell you that this will no longer happen.

I will no longer be manipulated to agree with you simply because if I don't, there will be an argument.

You will no longer hold me back.

I have to take a stand. I can not let my daughter think that this is normal. That this is how people treat one another. That her opinion means nothing.

I accepted your apology. I am big enough to be able to forgive.

I will never forget.

Never.

I am so thankful that your son is nothing like you.

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deleted9257913 52p · 713 weeks ago

I'm sorry you're going through this. I have similar issues myself, as you already know. Love and hugs to you, Sweetie. You do what you gotta do for you and your girl!
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Stasha 77p · 713 weeks ago

I just wish there was an easy way to get through it all.

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Jenn · 713 weeks ago

Never let anyone belittle your opinion. You are worth so much more than that, so while I'm sure there was a lot of hurt prompting this post, I'm glad to read it. *hugs*
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A lot of things have happened to make me feel this way.

Recent happenings made me decide to stand up for myself.

Oka · 713 weeks ago

this is sooooo frustrating to me
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It is frustrating.

And I am finally fed up with it.

Shell · 713 weeks ago

Oh honey. Sending prayers your way.
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Thanks, Shell.

I appreciate the prayers!

Kris · 713 weeks ago

So much strength in these words here today.

So proud of you, Stasha.

My thoughts are with you.

Kris,

Thank you. There has been a lot that led up to this. A lot of me being silent. A lot of me not being able to be me.

I am done with that.

I will not be a doormat any more.

I will not let my daughter think that it is acceptable to be treated this way.

Sigh.

I am strong.

And I have to believe that everything will be OK. . .

I have been told in the past that I was a bitch when I shared my opinions. The person that said that is no longer in my life. You have a right to your opinions. They are worth something. You are worthy to have your own opinions. Stay strong. Hold tight to these convictions and know that you are totally worthy.

Yes. . . I was called more things than I care to share here.

My opinion is worth something.

I am worth something.

Thank you.

Angela · 700 weeks ago

Everyone is 'always' entitled to their opinion, thoughts, ect. that is what makes us individuals. This is the first time that I have visited your blog and I am glad I'm here. My grandmother used to tell me when I was younger that "people will treat you badly if you allow them to." She used to tell me that a lot because I used to sit back silently and let others walk right over the top of me. Until I decided that enough was enough! That's been years ago now. I am glad to see that you have decided that also. You are worth something, and the way you feel matters. Your daughter will respect you more for standing up for that. :)
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